I'd also go with the middle guy, and I'd really, really research the cabinets. Have you looked at Ikea?

I'd also look at second hand appliance dealers, and on craigslist. Think about the people who are being foreclosed on. They're stripping everything out that they put in the house. That stuff has got to be out there.

Be creative. The library is your friend. I'm convinced you can make a great kitchen without a lot of money, without going el cheapo on the finishes. Look at salvage companies. Look at yard sales. Think outside the (Home Depot) box!