With my partner we do share a love of cycling and cycling is infused in our life in a way that we might almost take it for granted --if that makes any sense.

However there have been some major cycling/bike related things he caught me by surprise without any discussion:
*he sets up a cycling planning consulting firm with 2 other biz partners. (at least he told me a few wks. before they files biz incorporation papers with the govn’t)
*he books a self-planned bike trip to Europe for several wks. with a biz partner.
*he bought a folding bike….he just showed me his purchase 2 days ago. Before he takes the bike to use it in Europe.

He is dedicating his own moolah for all 3 above. So I don’t get why I’m not being told until the deed is done.