Cleanses

[Zen]

I want to ask exactly what it is but dont want to sound stupid

If I gave a ---- about sounding stupid I'd be Silent Bob.
Which would be more stupid-
a) To not ask and just go do something that turns out to be stupid
or
2) Ask about it while thinking you sound stupid but deciding against it because it sounds stupid?

it sounds like a fad crash diet to me?:

I think you're on to something there.

Then there's always the third option of asking and making the wrong decision which does turn out to be stupid