Quote Originally Posted by hellosunshine View Post
!i aim to do this alone now,ive found in the past it doesnt work to rely on professionals to cure you,its ultimately up to the individual with lots of positive influences chipping in..................
The mark of an excellent clinician is one who can help you find your own solution to your own goals and help you find ways to meet that goal through your own drive and power to do so. It is ultimately up to you, like you said! What you don't want in a clinician is someone who just gives lots of advice. It sounds like you haven't had much success with professionals - it is like finding a pair of shoes - you have to get a good one that is a good fit and that you can "wear" even on LONG days or long stretches - weeks. If you get the wrong shoes, throw em' out and look for more.
Statistically speaking, the best way to tackle this is through the helping process.
I like that you are looking for positive influences. Take control of this, own it, and the solution will be yours!

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BYLMTvxOaeE