I never really had problems until recently. I had a Fizik Vitesse which was a great saddle but I was having chafing problems. I recently got this used from a TE person: http://www.sellesmp-bicyclesaddles.c...k_man_lady.php

I LOVE this saddle. Granted it's funky looking but it is the comfiest saddle I have ever ridden on. I know if you search the saddle threads you will find a ton of info. This doesn't touch any soft parts at all and once it's adjusted right, it doesn't even feel like a saddle. I see you're in the PNW, if you ever want to test ride on it, let me know. You might be able to find one used if you like it but even new, they aren't that much.