Quote Originally Posted by quint41 View Post
I agree with Aquila -- why did the doctor come to YOU with this? Did he discuss it directly with Mr. S's father first?

Don't be upset that Silver brought it up, Mr. S. Not only are we all anonymous, but this is what women do -- we help each other through stuff.
I think this is the answer...that is, the doctor needs to 'break the ice'...it's not that I am unwilling, but because of other considerations unique to us, it's a VERY COMPLEX issue...

quint: I'm not upset with Silver (at least, not about this ) Anonymous or not, this is a very bright, insightful, and balanced group...( even without its 'token male' )

I'm frankly relieved by the forum discussion because it catalyzed my thoughts and helped bring clarity to my 'internal debate'.