DH & I are happily into different sports. We toyed with the idea of riding together, but I like going fast & feeling the wind on me, he trundles along arrives ages behind me and then asks "Did you see this & that? Oh what a pity you missed it." We were going to train together for a century & it was all looking good. We even got a nanny for Saturday mornings. Then reality set in for DH. If he's going to spend 4 hours out doing sport, he'd rather be on a golf course. I'd love him to ride b/c then someone would change my flats for me, but that wasn't a big enough incentive. Can't work out why not??? So he golfs, I ride and all is well.