Hi Sandy- Your bike story sounds a bit like mine, except I didn't take the bike out for a spin- I just tried frames until I found one that worked for me (also a steel frame). I had the same experience- the guys were super patient with me (even though I found out later they were pretty skeptical!) and in the end I have been pleased with my purchase too! Good for you not to let those youngins intimidate you!

Let us know how your very first ride goes

Do you have a friendly bike club in your vincinity? Hopefully you do. Most guys are thrilled to see women riders if they are serious (I think you are). I am also ecstatic when I find older women riding. We just have some catching up to do!