what do you ladies think of this?

My brother drove in this weekend and we did an event ride together. We opted to do 70 miles and rode together almost all day altho at times one or the other would pull ahead 100 yds or so (usually him except at the end I felt strong)... but we always wait for each other... the purpose of us riding is to enjoy the ride and do stuff together...

2 of his friends also drove in and were riding the century together... but one is VERY fast. The other guy is way faster than me, but not as fast as the other...

my bro and I pull in to the 1st SAG and there is the slower of the 2... 18 miles in and already alone... he seemed irritated.

As we rode my bro said the other guy never waits... he has this thing about how fast can he go etc. I get that to a degree... but not at the cost of stranding my friends. I rode with them a few weeks ago and he blasted off the front then too... I TOLD them I wasn't as fast... so I have to say I was irritated.

So, is it just me? Am I being overly sensitive? I'm not a "racer" so maybe my perspective is whacked compared to others... I just thought it stunk.