hmmm...
I would have gone to law school earlier, I just didn't have the confidence when I was younger.

negotiated better salaries for myself so that I could have more money saved for my daughter's schooling and me and my so's retirement....but we still have time!

I am happy with my life, I am just taking the lessons I have learned from the "what I would have done differently" and am incorporating them into my life. I came out at a young age during a "not so friendly" era in a very homophobic town with NO regrets. 99% of the time listened to my gut in relationships (only lived with 2), only 1 time I dated someone that my gut said "RUN." I learned a lot from that, though....like--trust your gut!

oh, yeah....Trek420, like you I had the condo that go away: it was 1987, the condo was dirt cheap in Provincetown, MA. I wouldn't take the risk...