temporary co-worker, 15 years younger than I am, and very healthy, asked me this today (I had been cautioning her on not being a perfectionist - just look where it got me!)
I thought about this as I walked home tonight....my brain rattled through the usual: laugh more, play more, yada yada, then the aha moment:
cry more
so, what would you have done differently?
Hugs and butterflies,
~T~