our mortgage is $1400 a month but it will be paid off in 9 years (we got a 15 year refinanced mortgage) It's hard to compare to people living in Arkansas and Illinois and Missouri, but we compare very well with people who live in large urban centers.

We DO sometimes have car payments, but after the car is paid off we make those payments to ourselves, so when we are ready to buy the next car, we have a considerable start. This year might end up a little different because of all the bikes coming into the family (ack, cough, choke ) but this is the way we've managed for the most of our marriage. We also don't have credit card debt. (yet!)