This is super personal (but now that we hava guy on the board maybe this will help me).
My dh and i have been together for 20 years. He is 10years older then me. We have always had a good physical relationship but... Well the past year or so there have been a few times when things have not worked right with him. I have never delt with this on any level. And I can tell it bother's him. We kinda talk about it but it is odd for us for some reason. He does have high blood pressure and is taking meds. He bikes all the time like me so he is in good shape. But when it happens we are both kinda weird with eachother and it is awkward. Any advice?