Maybe it's because I get nervous, but I get so clumbsy when I come to red lights because it's so hard for me to come to a stop and then starting up again without fumbling around looking like a 6 year old on a bike with out training wheels for the first time. What am I doing wrong? Any pointers? I have cage pedals.... and for this reason specifically, my boyfriend doesn't think I'm ready for clipless yet and frankly neither do I.... help