Thank heaven, BCI. When I read your post I cracked up and then I read Lisa reaction and laughed harder. But you definitely got me on that one.

Cheri, you're saying you're happy with the relationship as it is, yes?

If I got that right, then that's all that counts. If it works for the two of you, enuff said. That is all that is important.

Now, if it stops working for you, considering that your sweetie isn't open to talking about it, I really like the cuddling idea.