I would think that the woman who did the fitting would tell you that the bike was too big. You spent a lot of money making those changes and if the bike was that far off she should have been honest with you and recommended a different solution.

When I had my fitting on my Aegis I went to a Serotta trained fitter. They have a bike called a size cycle that can be adjusted to your dimensions. My fitter set me up on it before I made the decision to change my fork. That way I had an idea of what the changes would be like.