
Originally Posted by
limewave
I like visiting cemeteries. I find it very peaceful and interesting.
When I visit someplace new, I like to have a "free structure" to my tourist activities.
For example, I would plan my day to spend the morning and early afternoon exploring and wandering around by foot or bike. Go back to the hotel to freshen up, rest for a bit, then head out to a museum for a few hours. I find it stressful to pack in a bunch of planned activities. I want room in my schedule for flexibility based on how I'm feeling that day.
I have girlfriends that I sometimes travel with. They have to plan out what we're doing every minute of the day, complete with a printed itinerary and directions to everything. It's so stressful.
You and I approach trip planning similarly. At least on city vacations, I like to have one or two planned things each day; the rest of time I go with the flow. I can only handle being in a museum for an hour or two anyway, before my head explodes. The rest of the time I wander.
I've spent a lot of time by myself in Paris. The time of day I always found my challenging was after things start to close but before it's "acceptable" to eat dinner, i.e., from about 6 to 8 or so. I usually would set up shop at a cafe or see a movie or I'd have an early dinner and then see a concert or something.
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