Numbness could mean your saddle is tilted incorrectly, or your saddle is too padded, or you may need a saddle with a cutout. Check the saddle threads over in Gear and Accessories.
The chafing pattern I think you're describing would point to you needing a new saddle as well...that pattern can be caused by a saddle that's too "pear-shaped" for you. For a better explaination than I can provide, check the saddle threads.![]()