LOL! Yes, that got a lot of comments. My father died of cancer about 10 years ago. My DHs wife of 17 years died of cancer a few years ago. I wore it for them. My "something borrowed" was her earrings and necklace. His 10 year old daughter loaned her mom's (now hers) jewelry for me to wear if I wanted. I was honored to do that. All of us, even the 10 year old, raise money for Livestrong, and ride the Livestrong challenge every year.... DH runs Livestrong marathons. So on it stayed!