
Originally Posted by
cylegoddess
I would say your saddle is too wide( which is what mine is). You need to get measured,do you have narrow hips?I do and have to ride mens saddles.
That could be, but is not always the case...I had a couple of saddle sores from hell from riding too-narrow saddles over the years. I have narrow hips (34") and am very petite in general. Turns out I do much better on a Terry Butterfly or Selle Italia Lady Gel Flo (wider!) than narrow saddles like the Damselfly. On the narrower saddles, I was putting too much weight inboard, rather than on my sit bones, and I guess the extra pressure caused a sore, once started, to worsen. Narrow hips does not always mean boy-narrow sitbones!
Unfortunately there is often no easy/quick answer to this. It could be the shorts, the saddle, or both; or even your position/fit on the bike. You should not being wearing underwear under your shorts in most cases, and you should get them off immediately after a ride. Wash your shorts after every ride. You may know all this, but I'm throwing it out just in case. Trial and error is in order here. For my most chronic sore, I had to get a cortisone shot right in it (uncomfy, but cleared it right up). I also took several months off the bike. Still, it started coming back when I hopped right back on the same saddle the next season. I finally decided to go back to a wider saddle, and voila, no more sores!
Chamois Butt'r helps me with chafing/rawness from friction (heat, sweat, shorts too large, etc), but not true, deep saddle sores.
Good luck -- this is not a fun thing, and I do feel your pain!
Emily
2011 Jamis Dakar XC "Toto" - Selle Italia Ldy Gel Flow
2007 Trek Pilot 5.0 WSD "Gloria" - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow
2004 Bike Friday Petite Pocket Crusoe - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow