Suzi - thank goodness you are ok and no lasting harm done.
People can be jerks and react differently in different situations (not to excuse the drivers bad behaviour
As I was reading this I thought what lessons can we all learn from this.
#1 - Be VISIBLE as I think it was Grog said - light clothing and lots of reflectors and lights. Dusk and dawn are horrible times - also oftentime people are tired, in a hurry and not focused.
#2 - if at all possible look for routes that avoid busy or dangerous intersections even if it means you have to go out of your way
#3 - The read that Bleeker street girl sent is good for everyone to read because it covers a lot of scenarios. We use it in our bicycle safety classes
#4 know your rights as a cyclist according to your state laws - here a cyclist over 12 is not allowed on the sidewalks and cyclists are treated as vehicles following those rules of the road. (a fellow group rider got cited and fined for not coming to a complete stop at a stop sign - he thought of fighting it but everyone said just pay it - you were wrong according to the law)
#5 - realize no matter what rights we have - cars are bigger and heavier and are going to win every time.
#6 be sure to have your bikes listed under your home-owners ins policy
Take care and How is your bike?
It's about the journey and being in the moment, not about the destination