I have no advice for riding during pregnancy -- I stopped right at five months because I suddenly had balance issues on the bike. But congratulations and good luck!
I will address the part about being in shape, etc. My daughter is almost 15 months old and I am in practically the best shape of my life. I am 5 pounds under my pre-pregnancy weight, and if I could only get some time for core and upper body exercises, I would be set.
I think the key is finding like-minded new parents who share your interest in being active, because your social life will change post-baby. I lucked into a mother's group (through my OB's office) that happened to include two serious cyclists (way out of my league, but they are nice and ride with me!) as well as other athletic women. We have a mom's group ride once a week, with trailers, and there are others who have formed running groups, etc. There have also been some hiking trips and other outdoorsy stuff.
My husband and I are now friends with some of these women outside of the moms' group; he rode a century two weeks ago with one of the other dads, and we've got some family rides scheduled for the next month or two -- dads pulling trailers, moms getting a break from trailer-hauling. A couple of the other dads are getting my husband into cyclocross racing, and we also swap babysitting so moms can get time to ride on their own. This is turning out to be an awesome set of connections for us, and we plan to hang on to these new friends for the long run if we can.
A lot of the mothers originally met in a prenatal yoga class. (I met them all later.) That might be a good place to start connecting with like-minded new parents, and most yoga studios seem to offer prenatal yoga these days.
Good luck and congratulations!
ETA: I will pass along a tip from one of my friends who has twins the same age as my daughter. She and her husband both race cyclocross, and this year they are splitting the season: she does half the races and he does the other, so nobody has to miss a whole season. Another couple I know is doing it differently; the mom is sitting out the season and dad is doing all the racing. I think the first option sounds a whole lot better, don't you?



along. Also dh doesn't really like dealing with me when I don't get my exercise in.
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