
Originally Posted by
OakLeaf
Welcome to our addiction letsride! Don't let all the emergency preparedness tips scare you. Have fun!
I agree with all the posts about safety, and practicing changing tires, etc.
And, hoping this is not too big a thread drift, the other thing I would say is that perhaps you will find a way to talk with your mom about all the precautions and safety information you are learning. Perhaps it will reassure her that you are learning to ride smart. (And, perhaps not, of course some folks are anxiety-ridden.)
I, personally, really hate being told to "ride safe," or "drive safe," or whatever. (As if I am going to be reckless unless they warn me?) I know that the people who say this mean well. However, as I have explained to a few of my friends, I have enough fear in life on my own. When others consistently warn or admonish me about being safe, it feeds my fear, not my courage. I need to be surrounded by people who literally "encourage" me, rather than worrying about me. Their worry does not keep me safe.
So, I do the best I can to take precautions, whether I am riding my bike or driving across country alone, or camping alone, or whatever. Then, I like to be encouraged with "have fun," and "go for it" rather than "be careful!"
Several of my friends have changed how they speak to me, because they care about me, and my need for confidence. I have explained that I need their boldness, confidence and belief in me...more than I need their worry about me.
I don't know if any of this rambling makes sense. Just thought I'd throw it out there.
"The best rides are the ones where you bite off much more than you can chew, and live through it." ~ Doug Bradbury