Kathi,
Wow, that sounds like an intense experience in so many ways. I hope that you are feeling better from your asthma attacks.
I hate to hear about cyclists riding and behaving in the unsafe ways you witnessed -- it does us all a huge disservice. Behaviors like this have influenced me away from large club rides and events into just riding with DH. We tend to get treated better by motorists because we are respectful, ride single-file when there is a car back, and wave cars around when we can see the way is clear.
It must have stung to hear that other rider talking about you on the phone with his wife, too. That would have bugged the crap out of me to think that another rider felt he had to comment about my behavior or whatever his perception of it was. You can't please everyone, so hopefully his words didn't sting for too long. You couldn't help being sick and certainly weren't trying to make anything "all about you", I'm sure.
Thanks for sharing your experiences and hope you don't have repeats of your asthma problems going forward!
Emily
Emily
2011 Jamis Dakar XC "Toto" - Selle Italia Ldy Gel Flow
2007 Trek Pilot 5.0 WSD "Gloria" - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow
2004 Bike Friday Petite Pocket Crusoe - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow