uh... Southbay where? I see you have Redondo as your location.. there is a Southbay in San Diego as well...???
and yes, I DO know what you mean... when I was new, riding with my now ex-DH (and the D does NOT stand for "dear"![]()
) was miserable... you're smart to find people that are closer to your level but that will still give you incentive to improve...