Hey Sandy, I second the Kashi cereal, YUMMIES! I love the Kashi Go Lean Crunch, may fav...but it makes me a bit gassy.
I found it the cheapest at wal-mart. The things the ladies have listed here are fabulous, the yogurts with the fruit on the bottom are great snacks for in between meals. Whenever you have pasta or bread, try to choose whole wheat rather than white. Also since you have such long days, try to have something healthy to snack on so you don't have long stretches in between meals and end up being famished by the time you do eat.
One thing that I want to remind you of so you don't get discouraged is...Men drop way so easily compared to women so don't gauge how you are doing compared to him. My husband will just have to think about losing weight and it happens for him. When I wanted to drop a few pounds a few years back...it was more of a struggle for me.
Life is what we make it, always has been, always will be. ~Grandma Moses