I think you should consider titanium with a carbon fiber fork. I am the proud owner of a Sampson Silverton. It took me a least 6 weeks to decide what I wanted and I am absolutely thrilled with the decision I made. For $2400 I got a titanium frame, carbon fiber fork, Campagnolo Chorus 10-speed, and other top quality components on the bike. The bike fits me perfectly and is extremely comfortable. I do the same kind of riding, mostly rural roads. I did a century a few weeks ago and was still comfortable on this bike at the end of the ride. Eric Sampson owns the company, Sampson Sports, and he is great to work with. You are about my size, I am heavier, and he will put the bike together to fit you. For example, I have small hands and he put handlebars on my bike that are sized for smaller hands. No, I don't work for the company and I haven't met Eric in person. But it is a great bike and I LOVE it. Check out sampsonsports.com.
I did test ride a carbon fiber Aegis, but I like titanium better.
Liner