How long have you been riding this bike? Steering does feel different depending on the geometry of the front end: head tube angle, fork rake, and trail. A steep head tube angle with little trail will feel twitchy, especially at low speed. It should feel stable at high speed but steer nimbly. You may simply prefer a different frame geometry, though you could probably get used to it in time (or has it been long enough already?). I used to switch between 2 bikes with different geometry and it took a month or more to get used to the twitchier bike. A bike built for touring would have a longer wheelbase and more stable steering.
Or perhaps the frame geometry and your size are forcing your handlebars too far behind the front axle. That's a problem you won't overcome.
Oil is good, grease is better.
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1993 Bridgestone MB-3/Avocet O2 Air 40W
1980 Columbus Frame with 1970 Campy parts
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