Hi FN,
When I first started road biking, I drove 50 miles each way to a paved trail Saturdays and Sundays. It was worth it to me because I wan't comfortable in traffic. Is there somewhere like that you can drive to? I think the key to that, and getting enough miles in, is plan your day around cycling- make that the center of your weekend days, especially the long ride, and find the joy in being out there a long time- don't see it as something taking you away from what you really should be doing. I figure, if I can devote 8-10 hours a day on weekdays to work, I can allow the same for cycling, which is something I love! If you're worried about what time you're getting home and all the stuff you have to do when you are done riding, it's hard to have a nice ride, and you end up cutting your training short.
Nanci
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"...I'm like the cycling version of the guy in Flowers for Algernon." Mike Magnuson