Calorie Help Please :)

[Mish]

I'm a bit stuck. I've been gradually increasing my cycling in an effort to lose weight and get fitter. I am definitely getting fitter, and I've changed shape a bit, but I haven't lost an ounce in weight.

I don't know how many calories I should be eating.... I'm 5'4 and 290 pounds, so depending on where I look, I can be recommended to eat anything between 1200 and 1900 calories a day. I also have a sedentary job, stuck behind a desk....

Does anyone have any experience of trying to lose this much weight, and how did you change your diet, how many calories etc, did you eat?

I would really appreciate any help please, I can't wait to see how much more fun the bike is when its carrying one person and not the equivalent of two..!

thanks

Elaine

[thekarens]

First, you should always check with your doc before making any major diet changes.

Having said that, I used My Fitness Pal to lose 60lbs a couple years ago. I'm 5'3 and went from 200 to 140. I was eating 1200 calories and exercising 6 days a week.

However, what works for one person doesn't necessarily work for another.

[Mish]

Thanks. Well done on the weight loss, you must feel so much better now.

I did see my doc, he gave me the green light to go ahead, but he wants me to go and see him in six weeks to check all is ok.

I've been using my fitness pal too - what a great app that is! I tried 1200 calories a day, but that made me very wobbly. I should maybe also admit to being diabetic too, which is one of the reasons for the diet and exercise thing.

[thekarens]

Whatever your calorie goal I recommend eating back your exercise calories.

Another, more healthy option would be to improve what you're eating instead of worrying so much about the calories. Eating less processed, less breads, pasta etc and more veggies and lean meats. I know, easier said than done...been there!

[Veronica]

I lost 30 pounds in 2001 - went from 180 to 150 in about 4 months. Since then my weight has fluctuated from a low of 143 to high of 156 and a body fat percentage of 14 - 22. I think the biggest thing is to make changes to your diet that you can live with for the rest of your life. I'm a teacher - there's almost always crap food around. To lose that initial weight I stopped eating anything I didn't bring to work. I've relaxed that "rule" but I'm really picky about what I choose to eat. I also realized that I am a stress eater. I went from 165 to 180 pounds in a school year because I was so stressed out. The school secretary had chocolates on her desk. I ate A LOT of them in 2000! Now I really pay attention what I eat and why.

Everyone is different. Riding my bike a lot does not really keep my weight down. I weighed 156 when I was training for and riding double centuries, but I wasn't really moderating what I ate and I wasn't doing any weights. I've been working with a personal trainer since 2008 and I think the weight work I do with her is what has made the biggest difference for me and keeps my weight below 150. I really like the variety in my workouts. I try to eat most of my carbs in the morning. I have a tremendous sweet tooth and I don't like most vegetables. Here's what I'm eating this week:

Breakfast - either a cup of NF Fage yogurt with strawberries and a half cup of cereal or frosted mini wheats with strawberries and 2% milk - we're getting fresh strawberries out here
Snack - honey stinger proten bar
Lunch - salad - red leaf lettuce, tomatoes, carrots, cucumber, celery and 4.5 ounces of grilled steak with onions and peppers, Yopa yogurt with raspberries and dark chocolate
Snack - 1/4 cup trail mix - cashews, almonds, raisins, M&Ms
Dinner - 6 ounces pork tenderloin with onions and red peppers, seasoned with fajita mix, 100 calorie guacamole and some salsa - no tortilla!

During the day I only drink water. Mornings I have a little bit of OJ and a lot of coffee.

You have to figure out what will work for you and your lifestyle. My trainer, who has a minor in Nutrition, would love for me to eat nothing but chicken, fish and turkey, egg whites, broccoli and cut out some more of my sugar. I hate broccoli and get tired of chicken and turkey pretty quickly. I am also not a big fan of fish.

Good luck!

Veronica

[BikeDutchess]

Mish, have you worked with a registered dietician and/or certified diabetes educator? Most insurers will cover at least one visit (sometimes more) with a diabetes diagnosis. Doctors often just throw some general guidelines at you, but RDs can provide much more tailored advice.

ETA: oops, just noticed you're in the UK, not sure what the insurance coverage is there. But even if you have to pay for it yourself, it could be very worthwhile.

[Catrin]

Mish, have you worked with a registered dietician and/or certified diabetes educator? Most insurers will cover at least one visit (sometimes more) with a diabetes diagnosis. Doctors often just throw some general guidelines at you, but RDs can provide much more tailored advice.

ETA: oops, just noticed you're in the UK, not sure what the insurance coverage is there. But even if you have to pay for it yourself, it could be very worthwhile.

I do recommend this, especially since you are diabetic. You need to have a baseline of calories, and it also matters WHAT those calories consist of. I've reversed my diabetes with diet/exercise and have kept the weight off for over 4 years now, but I only had about 85 pounds to lose (dropped from 210 to 125 and I am 5'3). If you cut your calories too much for your metabolism that causes other problems that can defeat your entire purpose. It might be good to get a resting metabolism test if you have access to that in order to get a good idea what your current metabolic rate is - this will allow for more informed help from your dietitian (if you have access to one). I don't know how this is in the UK, but here there are some physician's offices that has this available, and also some of the larger/more developed fitness facilities. The cost varies from reasonable to outrageously expensive, at least here it does.

Good luck, whichever approach you decide upon!

[Mish]

Thanks for all your replies. It's really interesting to see what other people eat! Veronica, your diet sounds like you would never be hungry, is that right?

I've also stopped eating stuff at work I haven't taken in myself. I now make my own vegetable soup (no cream), and have that with brown bread for lunch. It's a lot more effective than I thought it would be.

I'd also never thought of seeing a dietician... That sounds bizarre to me now. Thank you for that suggestion, I think a little investment in that direction will be well worth it.

Elaine