I've had good luck with Giro. Like saddles, they are kind of personal preference. I am wearing a Lonestar Atmos now- best-ever BD present from BF!
But have in the past been satisfied with a lesser model, who, after crashes too numerous to mention, takes a licking and keeps on ticking. (with no structural damage, of course!)
I think all helmets meet the same safety standards- what you pay for, after that, is lightness and number of vents.
Nanci
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