Bought a Specialized Ruby Apex and took it out for its first spin today. When I researched the shifters I was encouraged by the description that they were easier for women's hands etc. and also liked the idea that they could be pulled in closer to the bar to make reach easier. All these things seemed like good ideas for a woman's bike. About halfway through my ride I got stuck in a gear and the derailleur stopped responding. My friend had coincidentally just bought he same bike so she got on and it shifted fine for her. After struggling again after we started up again it dawned on me what the problem was.
I had picked the shifters based on an image of femininity and forgotten to factor in that I actually have completely abnormal freakshow strong grip strength. My hands are not feminine and my poor little bike was protesting my manhandling of the shifters. Once I mentally adjusted to "don't crush the butterfly strength" it was all good. Funny moment though.