I would invest in a recumbent bike before I'd:
1) Ride an upright bike with a noseless saddle. Have heard nothing but bad things about them re. control, stability, and safety.
2) Give up cycling.
Recumbents are cool! Something else to think about if all the excellent suggestions from the ladies of TE above do not work!
Emily
2011 Jamis Dakar XC "Toto" - Selle Italia Ldy Gel Flow
2007 Trek Pilot 5.0 WSD "Gloria" - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow
2004 Bike Friday Petite Pocket Crusoe - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow