Barb: you could also buy the non-cycling gloves you liked that kept your hands warm and then wear your padded cycling gloves under them. I actually have 4 pairs of winter cycling gloves, long-fingered Specialized BG gloves in a light-weight material, heavier Canari LF gloves, heavy wind/water proof Avenir gloves and the PI Lobster Claws. I only wore the Lobsters a couple of times last year coz they do keep my fingers warm. I also have a pair of polypro liners that I can wear under any of the gloves as I reach the "end" of their temp range. (I pick my clothing based on 10 degree increments so at the upper end it may be a tad warm, at the lower end it may be a tad cold but for the most part it's Just Right for that temp range.)
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand, strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming: "Yeah Baby! What a Ride!"