Wow. Your kid really is a dead ringer for me as a teen - in reverse. I wanted to do nuclear engineering and took nothing but science before switching to poli sci.
I definitely second the Society of Women Engineers.
My mother works in industrial engineering. And she actually prefers to work with men. She is the only woman in her department. I don't actually know how she does it sometimes! Honestly, the reason I didn't do it was not the math or science, but the lack of social contact. Finding a department that works is never simple, but there are ones that work.
I have a friend who is here in nuclear engineering and one in chemical engineering (both women) and they love it here at MU. Yes, there are only a small number of women, but it is growing. There is a chapter of SWE here and they have mentoring and get-togethers. Purdue is another place I have/had friends. Similar situation there.
I like big state schools and the opportunities they offer, so I focused my search mainly on IU and Purdue and Purdue had an engineering school. Rose Hulman is smaller, but WAY worse on the male dominant thing and mom and dad said heck no to the tuition. In the end, I hated Purdue, so I didn't need to break my Dad's heart and go there. The campus was ugly in comparison to IU (the place I had idolized as THE university since a baby) and it was really conservative. Tell her to go visit campuses and realize that she needs a COMMUNITY around her.
Ask lots of questions and I am sure it will work out!
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