My husband ugh!!!

[Brandi]

My husband I swear sometimes is so stubborn. He will get an idea in his head a swear it is what it is no matter how much I try and tell him everything is ok and it is not like that. We are having issues with me being on facebook. He thinks everyone knows everything I am doing etc...and that is not true. When we travel and such I never say we are leaving or are away. I just go about fb like I do every day. just generic nothing to out of the norm. But he is convinced it is another way... errrrrrrr.

[smilingcat]

If I were you, I would tweak him a bit more...

Has the power meter on top of the main breaker for your house, the one used by the power company to meter your electrical usage, been upgraded to digital?

If so chances are that the power company can read the power without sending a field person to take a reading. And the new one is to take readings any time of the day. The stink out there is that the crooks have figured a way to read the power meter and look at your instantaneous reading. If its low, you must be out. Time to break in...

I'm sure that would send him up the tizzie. Now this is just all urban legend so I don't believe a word of it. Just well maybe possible.

Regarding face book. Why doesn't he visit your page and see?? or let him see your page?

Yup. Freebie to be had at **** house. The owners are on vacay!! No alarm!! Everything must go!! Easy pickin...

[limewave]

My DH got all in a snort about FB too. I'm on the computer all day, work from home, taking care of children all evening . . . FB really is my social network. Somewhat pathetic, I know.

Anyways, he didn't like how I knew what was going on with his friends or how they knew what I was up to. I ended up blocking and unfriending all of his friends.

And I don't write anything about DH on FB.

That solved our FB issues.

[Biciclista]

my husband is on facebook constantly. Every ride he does is recorded with a dozen photos including of what he eats... I guess we're all different.

[Brandi]

I blocked a bunch of people as well. I think there is something else wrong here and I am just a target. Hard when you spend 24/7 together. He needs to get out and ride. But alas the rain is preventing that.
You know some people you can't argue with at all. I even offered to let him look at what I post. And it has nothing to do with anything really.

[CycleTherapy]

ummm, I don't mean to sound in any way offense, really I don't. Sometimes we can be near-sighted in our vision because maybe we need a tweak of our lenses or perception. Have you considered your post, as related to the very issue you are experiencing and asking advice for ? Could your post here be the same type of thing that makes your husband anxious and even fearful, which then comes out as anger ? Maybe the action of posting your issue here, is the kind of behavior that has your husband agitated ? Maybe it scares him that (in his belief) you might use FB as the alternative to communicating and satisfying a need for relationship... a relationship that he really wants you to find in HIM and through the commitment of your partnership.

Please read my thoughts merely as "food" for consideration; in no way were they meant as judgement.