Ack owlice! Sounds like just a fender-bender... hope you're okay and your car is, too!
I got to play ride leader.
Story of my life is I'm too slow for the fast group and too fast for the slow group. So a normal "group ride" for me is either sitting in/taking token pulls in a fast paceline; riding off the back in a fast hill ride; or riding off the front in a slow ride, maybe stopping at intersections if I'm helping navigate.
Yesterday there were some complications, and I wound up having to take two slower ladies around the course. On some days I might have grumbled inside, but yesterday it was fine. It was very humid and hotter than it's been, and I've got a little bit of a cold or something. Besides, it's good for my head to be responsible for other riders now and then.
Speed comes from what you put behind you. - Judi Ketteler