A little envy . . .

[limewave]

A friend of mine that I used to ride and train with until about 1.5 years ago just made a pro cycling team! And she's traveling the world doing all sorts of events.

I am so excited and happy for her! What an amazing journey she is on, and she has worked so hard for it.

But I can't help but feel a little envy. I wish I could do that too. But the last two years I've put on weight. I have barely any time to train. I have two kids and two jobs! (She's single).

And I love my family and am grateful that I chose that path . . . just wish it was true that you CAN have everything. But sadly, there aren't enough hours in the day.

I traded in nightly club hammer rides for slow cruises to the playground.

[Tri Girl]

Aww, that's great for her!! I can understand. My friend just became a pro triathlete. I'm thrilled too, but envious as well. I just decided I'll live vicariously through her. It's so exciting, but sometimes don't you just wonder what if...

[smilingcat]

Limewave,

I think you have the better life. It just looks like a greener pasture on the other side. That's all.

[Bike Chick]

Limewave, enjoy your family. They grow way too fast and will be gone before you know it. You will have many hours to train then and will welcome the distraction to chase the blues away because your children are gone. Count your blessings.

[teamtrinity]

Unless you're Chrissie Wellington, you're poorer than dirt. Being a pro sucks unless you're the top 1%. You have the better life, guaranteed!

[tulip]

I don't think it's a question of who has the "better" life. Each path is different, with its own challenges and rewards.

Generally speaking, if one finds oneself on a path that is not to one's liking, one can change it (with lots of effort and determination).