Lance on Sheryl's Biological Clock

[Biker Jo]

I don't know about all of you, but my opinion of Lance Armstrong changed after reading this article:

http://tiny.cc/4fgkH

[shootingstar]

Am a bit lost here.

Though I don't care much for a guy like Lance personally, he probably made the right decision to be honest with Crowe that he no longer wanted children when he had several himself. Then of course, the relationship had to end. (But presumably they could have gotten together again, if she already cross the biological line..But she needs time to work this through herself whatever the end result is.)

I personally don't think it's right that a guy should just make a woman happy to have a child, if HE is not 100% committed himself to the idea. And especially he already has children himself. Yes a love must end, if the woman insists on having children, her child, etc. But that's life. That's reality.

So Lance did do the most honorable thing, he was honest to Crowe. (Of course, we really don't know what else caused the end of their relationship. But who cares.)

[Blueberry]

For once, I'm not faulting Lance. She wanted kids - just then. He wasn't ready to commit to them again. I think it was the right decision for them based on the article.

CA

[TrekTheKaty]

I don't know if I can hold this against Lance. My husband is 15 years older than me and already had two pre-teen kids from his first marriage when we met. He didn't want to have more kids, and I accepted that before we got engaged. It was better for Lance to call off the engagement, than to enter a marriage where you don't agree on whether or not to have children. Someone will be disappointed. I've often said that just because you love someone, doesn't mean you should marry them.

[shootingstar]

Cunninghair, my partner had it easier. I didn't want any children but I accepted that he had 2 teens (at the time when we first met). To my amazement, he has said to me, that if I wanted to have a child, he would go along --just to please me/fill my wishes.

We joke about this now...he honestly wouldn't want the responsibility right now. He's 65 (he's 16 years older than I). Already the things that he has done in the past few years wouldn't have been possible with a baby to care for, while I went to work.

We wouldn't want any other way. And he has time to spend with adult children now plus his grandchild.

[ilima]

I don't fault Lance for saying 'no' to more kids. But I do think it's in bad taste to blab to the media and to help sell books (even though it seemed pretty obvious kids was the reason they broke up).

Still, he should have kept his mouth shut.

[elk]

who the heck is Anna Hansen? last I knew he was dating Goldie Hawn's daughter, what's her name...

[papaver]

who the heck is Anna Hansen? last I knew he was dating Goldie Hawn's daughter, what's her name...

Kate Hudson, nope that's finished too...


I think he was right to say no to kids... but still I think he should have kept it private.

[Crankin]

I don't see anything wrong with telling the truth about the reason for the break up. It would have been worse for them to get married when they felt so differently about this issue.
As far as him talking about it, well, he is writing a book, so this is publicity. I don't really get the celebrity thing, writing about yourself, etc., but this doesn't change my opinion of him.