Feeling Sad and Worried…

[wildhawk]

I have worked at my company for over 18 years and it was generally considered a ”recession-proof” business. But I got a phone call from one of my dear friends and co-workers on Tuesday before work to get a heads up that numerous jobs were cut. I went in with a heavy heart and sure enough, several people that I had worked with for years were out of a job. The rest of us are worried and stressed that if business does not improve, that we will follow suit. I know that this is happening all over the country right now, but it is hard when it hits home. I am not only worried for my friends who are out of work, but for us too - both I and my DH work for the same company so essentially all our eggs are in one basket. Please keep us in your prayers - I would appreciate it.

[Mr. Bloom]

I'm sorry for what's happening; you're right that the pain is widespread.

Remember, it's darkest right before dawn. I'm seeing a lot of data that indicate we may have found bottom...but we have to remember that when things get "better", they won't be "great".

I encourage you and DH to "prepare for the worst and hope for the best"...think about how you will respond to the worst case with a recommitment to one another, a commitment to prudence in spending, and a plan of action. Comfort comes in preparation

Keep us posted

[alpinerabbit]

Hey,

this almost happened to me last year - by an inch.I handed in my notice, had found a better job, and two weeks later my whole department was axed.

10 out of 12 have a job now, didn't take long either. For some, it wasn't easy. For #12, it is a "special case" - of not facing up to your limitations. Someone went into early retirement.
But almost all of my former workmates are now in a better position that will take them further than the old job would have, so it was, in a way, a healthy kick in the butt.
I understand, however, that it can get tight until one does find a good fit, especially when the economy is not doing well.
But if you keep your head up high, research your options, there will be another door that opens.
(Poor me, I missed out on the severance package. But I'm glad I just got out before the axe fell, because it had taken me a looooong time to "get it right". Worth more than any package)

[ACG]

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I encourage you and DH to "prepare for the worst and hope for the best"...think about how you will respond to the worst case with a recommitment to one another, a commitment to prudence in spending, and a plan of action. Comfort comes in preparation

The prepare for the worst and hope for the best scenario is what my dad always told me and it works. Keeping busy helps a lot. Dust off the resume. Look through the want ads. Go over your finances. Cut coupons. etc.

We as country are all in this together.

My dad, by the way worked at the age of 6, during the depression, in a bakery, his pay was a few loaves of bread.

[OakLeaf]

(((((((wildhawk)))))))

Long ago when I was young, single and already had a plan for the future, I was in a position of uncertainty about my job for the better part of a year, and remembering how INCREDIBLY stressful that was, I can only imagine how much worse it must be for someone farther along in her life and career.

I agree that the more you can do to feel in control - start the job search now, have a plan for what you'll cut back on first if either or both of you do become unemployed - the better you'll feel.

Hang in there. I'll keep you and your DH in my prayers.

[sundial]

Wildhawk, I'm keeping you close in thought and prayer.

[jesvetmed]

(((Wildhawk))). So many people in that situation, waiting and hoping the worst doesn't come. My office just restructured the staff and cut all of their hours, and let one person go. We are all holding our breath, too.

What great advice Mr. Silver gives. I think we all could benefit from it.

Hang in there.

[shootingstar]

Since some of you are gettin' warning signs already..better to be proactive.

I recall a long time ago, I had not updated my resume for 7 years because I was in a job that I loved so much that I would forget to take my allocated vacation.. Then one day I decided to update it..well, completely rewrite it. It took...hrs.. many hrs..because time spent on figuring out skills taken for granted..or more importantly, what we've learned but have taken that for granted also.

The newly rejuvenated resume became handy 3 years later.

Even now, it takes time for me to update resume since it takes time to rewrite certain parts to keep it uh...succinct (short?) every time I get a new job.... now if I stayed with 1 employer for 40 working years, I wouldn't have problems trying to distillate the number of different job experiences that I've had which are all..relevant to the jobs that I choose to apply for.

Note: I have a contract job that ends mid next year. So life isn't that cosy yet. Yes, there's a part that wonders...will I be in the latter part of a milestone year (when I turn 50) and be unemployed? It blows my mind that I know friends my age who will retire in 5 years because they have comfy pensions for being government workers.

Well, there could be worse things..but yes, the thought is difficult enough to wrap around my head even though doing everything else in the job search.

[Selkie]

Sending good karma your way, Wildhawk.

[Brandi]

((((((wildhawk))))))) ! Here is to hoping all will remain well with you and your dh!

[Biciclista]

((wildhawk)) I've been there too. Everyone gets depressed, not just the people that are going to get the axe. Then a few people with courage actually leave and get other jobs and "save" the others. that's what happened with me. I had enough seniority that i wasn't targeted, but it was so sad! All I can say is try to keep each other's spirits up and this too, shall pass.

[TrekJeni]

((wildhawk)) hang in there!

While typing the above, I accidentally typed "wildhacK" before realizing my mistake. Perhaps if you do find yourself in a new role it will have to do with HACKing computers!