I'm not much help as I'm from Licking County.
But I'm suspecting that one thing you'll need to get used to about exurban Ohio is that things are just farther apart... it's either a drive or a pretty long ride to most stores/events/clubs/etc. I'm surprised that upstate NY is much different. Unfortunately, you've moved to a pretty remote area. Honestly, you may not find a top-notch road bike shop closer than Toledo. 
I might add that our club is run by a VERY small core of volunteers, and website maintenance falls pretty low on the list. I expect that most rural clubs are the same. I too am put off by any organization that requires me to make a phone call, but that may be your best way to go at this time of year (in the spring, the best way to join a club is to just show up at one of their scheduled rides).
Speed comes from what you put behind you. - Judi Ketteler