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  1. #1
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    Objects thrown at you

    So last night I went on the group ride. Since it is getting dark earlier these days I decided to cut out one of the loops on the ride to get back earlier. So I'm all alone riding about 4 miles into the ride when a car drives by me and throws food out the window at me. This is the first time this has happened. Other people have said that they have had beer bottles thrown at them. I proceeded to do something extremely stupid. I fipped them the bird. It was just an instinct but I immediately regreted it because as I stated before I was all alone on this stretch of road. Usually a cyclist will ride by every few seconds but I had taken a different route to cut down the mileage of my ride last night so absolutely nobody else was out there with me.

    This proceeded to ruin my ride. I spent the rest of my ride feeling so lonely out there and for the first time worrying about my safety.

    Now today at work when I told the story to a couple of non-cyclist co-workers they actually had the nerve to go into how annoying cyclist can be and that the people in the car had probably just had it with cyclist and that is why they threw the food at me. Can you believe that?! As if I deserved what I got. So, now here I sit trying not to cry and not lose all faith in humanity.

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    Mean people suck. You didn't do anything wrong. Your coworkers have a sad, sad little view of their world.

    Thank goodness there are kind, compassionate, active people like you to balance out the universe.

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    Soda can, bottle of water, firecracker so far. Someone told me I should only ride on the 3 mile boring Veloway because roads are made for cars and I am a nuisance. They said they and their spouse lay on the horn as they pass cyclists. I told them the law was very different from their impression, passing doesn't take that long and honking usually just scares them and could cause a wreck. Then I reminded them that the cyclist is a person someone's son or daughter, how would he feel if someone treated their daughters that way. Oooooh that struck a nerve, only thing they are truly sensitive about.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aggie_Ama View Post
    Someone told me I should only ride on the 3 mile boring Veloway because roads are made for cars and I am a nuisance.
    It never works to tell motorists this.... but did you know that the paving of roads in this country began not because of cars, but because of the lobbying of the League of American Wheelmen (which means bicycle wheels, not auto wheels).... Yup indeed all of those nice paved streets, no more muddy mess, because the cyclists wanted a place to ride.

    The League was founded as the League of American Wheelmen in 1880. Bicyclists, known then as "wheelmen", were challenged by rutted roads of gravel and dirt and faced antagonism from horsemen, wagon drivers, and pedestrians.

    In an effort to improve riding conditions so they might better enjoy their newly discovered sport, more than 100,000 cyclists from across the United States joined the League to advocate for paved roads. The success of the League in its first advocacy efforts ultimately led to our national highway system.


    So no indeed - roads were not originally made for cars, they were made for us.... motorists should be irritated by bikes, they should be grateful, we literally paved the way for the rise of the automobile.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eden View Post
    The League was founded as the League of American Wheelmen in 1880. Bicyclists, known then as "wheelmen", were challenged by rutted roads of gravel and dirt and faced antagonism from horsemen, wagon drivers, and pedestrians.
    So, great. Bicyclists have been challenged, antagonized, and harassed for over a hundred years! We just can't buy a break!

    As for me, I recently had a black walnut fruit chucked at me, which hit me soundly on the arm. I was also shot in the leg with a pellet gun.

    Yeah. People are stupid.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 7rider View Post
    So, great. Bicyclists have been challenged, antagonized, and harassed for over a hundred years! We just can't buy a break!

    As for me, I recently had a black walnut fruit chucked at me, which hit me soundly on the arm. I was also shot in the leg with a pellet gun.

    Yeah. People are stupid.
    Isn't that assault? At what point do you call the police and report them?

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    A similar thing happened to me except the guy chased me down after I flipped him the "bird" after he cut me off. It was scary, but I held my ground and told him I had the right of way and he'd better not assault me any further. He left with no further problem., lucky for me. I didn't get his license number but later I wrote a letter to the police department and explained the circumstances, since I wanted to know if I really would be backed up by them after this scary incident. I got a nice letter back from our chief of police telling me I was correct in my assumptions of the law (in my circumstance) and that the guy who chased me down was wrong. Since then, I've decided that if there is any altercation with a motorist that goes this far, I will call the police immediately. I carry a cell phone with me at all times and will not hesitate to use it to report problem motorists. Usually, I ignore horn honks and cat calls, as annoying as they are. The more we ride, the more motorists will get used to us on the roads.

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    Quote Originally Posted by channlluv View Post
    Isn't that assault? At what point do you call the police and report them?

    Roxy
    For the gun or the walnut?? For the walnut, no. But my DH did go and patrol the neighborhood later, looking for the offending vehicle (never found it). For the gun, yes. I rode straight to the police station and reported the incident. They shrugged and said "Yeah, we've had reports of garbage cans and stuff being shot at over there." So, now this person was shooting at cyclists and they are STILL unconcerned???? I guess having a welt the size of a pencil eraser on my thigh, and nothing more, did not worry them to much.

    As for you new cyclists who are terrified of this thread. Please don't be. I - and many others here, undoubtedly - have ridden many thousands of incident free miles. These incidents are a collection of outliers to otherwise joyful rides. Ride like you are invisible....ride defensively...ride safely....but ride.
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    That is just rude no matter what the circumstance.

    Sorry this happened to you and ruined your ride.

    *hugs you*

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    Beer bootle here. Just remember, as they say on the open seas, "tonnage rules" that, and anyone that is rude or dangerous driving by you could be totally impaired on drugs or alcohol, insane, or very angry and looking to take it out on someone.Try to avoid getting any more of their attention....nothing good will come of it. Tokie
    Last edited by Tokie; 10-02-2008 at 07:49 AM. Reason: (I accidentally put a smiling face in the text alnog with a frown, now they're both gone)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tokie View Post
    Beer bootle here. Just remember, as they say on the open seas, "tonnage rules" that, and anyone that is rude or dangerous driving by you could be totally impaired on drugs or alcohol, insane, or very angry and looking to take it out on someone.Try to avoid getting any more of their attention....nothing good will come of it. Tokie
    And get a picture of their plate if you can - and send it to someone immediately.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aggie_Ama View Post
    honking usually just scares them and could cause a wreck. Then I reminded them that the cyclist is a person someone's son or daughter, how would he feel if someone treated their daughters that way. Oooooh that struck a nerve, only thing they are truly sensitive about.
    Yeah, next time maybe elaborate on what that accident could mean. That someone's son or daughter could easily fall and hit their head, get hit by a car ... umm .... die???

    Luckily my area in So Cal seems to be fairly bike friendly. Every now and then we'll hear someone holler something from a car that we can't quite make out. So, I just always assume they're yelling something wonderful!

 

 

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