Teddy -
Some great books you'll want to check out are:
A Woman's Guide to Cycling by Susan Weaver
The Female Cyclist by Gale Barnhardt
BTW - I agree with 1222, it's much better sans underwear!! As for the other, IMHO, tampons are better, just tuck the string away or you'll be sorry!
I like the butterfly seat as well, and the sooner you can get a different seat the better! (I went through 4 before I got the butterfly!)
You'll be surprised at how soon it is when 20 miles doesn't seem long! I've only been riding 13 1/2 months, and remember last August when I started riding how hard the 8 mile beginner rides were! Now, my first century is planned for November!
Welcome to The Bike Club!!! You've found a great place where nobody's afraid to tell it like it is!
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