You might take a look at Terry's website to see if any of the saddles with cutouts appeal to you. I use a Terry Butterfly Tri Gel. Terry has a generous return policy for saddles, so it's not a bad place to start.
I use chamois cream regularly and have never had a yeast infection from it.
Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Continue to learn. Appreciate your friends. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is.
--Mary Anne Radmacher