I just got a call from a dear friend that told us another dear friend just passed away today from complications due to hiv. He just came out when he started to get sick. We told him we already knew and loved him anyway. But he's partner of 6 years had it and didn't tell him. He started getting very sick this year and realized things were not right. I just saw him not two weeks ago. I guess i should see it as a blessing that we at least got to see him since it had been a year since the last time we saw him. He was young and talented. I am so going to miss him and he's wonderful energy he had. I just feel empty right now. I haven't lost many young friends in my life and it makes me mad that someone was selfish enough to take he's life. I mean that is what happend when he's partner didn't tell him. They broke up a year and half ago I believe.
Sigh....i just don't know what to do with myself. My dh and just sat here stunned and crying! Sorry I had to tell someone. Thanks!
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12-14-2007, 02:08 PM #1
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oh I am so sad!
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12-14-2007, 02:22 PM #2
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so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and his family
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12-14-2007, 02:24 PM #3
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Thank you so much! just reading that made me cry again.
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12-14-2007, 02:28 PM #4
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Brandi, I am so sorry. It makes me angry, I don't understand how someone could do that to another person. My thoughts are with you and your DH during this time.
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12-14-2007, 02:37 PM #5
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Oh, Brandi! How sad and pointless! Sending you lots of hugs and butterflies that will guide you through your grief and towards healing and forgiveness. I'll send a few butterflies over to the ex, too, so that he can learn what his actions did and be sure to not do it again. *sigh*
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12-14-2007, 02:53 PM #6
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That truly is heartbreaking, Brandi. My thoughts are with you, and all of his friends and family.
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12-14-2007, 08:25 PM #7
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Sorry about your loss...
Wow! This is pretty sad. Did he ever know?
Originally Posted by Brandi
But he's partner of 6 years had it and didn't tell him.If you don't grow where you're planted, you'll never BLOOM - Will Rogers
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12-16-2007, 02:14 PM #8
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He was told when it was way to late. Now a days if you find out early you can live for years and years on proper meds. But he didn't know in time to save himself. Originally Posted by Mr. Silver
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