So what have you learned this season...

[rocknrollgirl]

I have been having deep thoughts this morning brought on no doubt by the IM thread started by RM and a few of Yoda's musings. Mix that together with house cleaning and an idle mind, and viola...deep thoughts.

So what have you learned about yourself this season. Not about training, or racing, but about yourself as a person. What did this season teach you about who you are?

I think that I have learned two big lessons:

1. Patience. Looking at the road ahead and being patient. Trusting in the process and being patient.

2. What kind of racer/athlete that I want to be.
I have had a good season. I met my goal to qualify for nationals. However, I suffered a big disappointment earlier this month that kind of rocked me a bit. I chose not to share it on this forum for several reasons. It involves other people, and I did not feel that I could openly share the story, whether they are active here or not. Also I was not sure that I could accurately articulate the whole story, my feelings were so wound up. I really just wanted to talk to my Mom.

It took me several days to get my head screwed back on straight, and during that time I thought long and hard about what type of role model I want to be to my students, my friends, my family. Who do I really want to be as an athlete?

A big lesson to learn. Lots of sole searching involved.

So ladies...what have you learned about yourselves this season?

[Kimmyt]

This is a good thread.

I've learned a bunch this year, some things that really shocked me.

1. (the big one) I am much more of an athlete than I ever gave myself credit for.

I still have problems with this. It is, perhaps, a product of my past, but it's hard for me to admit I'm not horrible at this sports thing. I never was very good, or rather, I never explored the possibility of being good. This year I would say was my first year where I actually was pleased with myself. I realized that I could run, maybe not the fastest out there, but I have alot more strength and endurance than I would have ever believed. I found that I'm competitive. The Boy would laugh at me saying that, he says I'm one of the most competitive people he's ever met, but I wouldn't have thought so until this year when I found out just how fun it is to race.

Realizing that I'm able to be athletic really opened my eyes. It made me prouder of myself, my body, my willpower. It made me feel happy, it gave me a 'can do anything' feeling. Really, the first time I've had that feeling.

2. I've also realized some things about my personality, some things that are bad maybe, and that I should work on. It's been a good year for that. I'm trying to not let it upset me, but its hard you know to find out things that aren't so good about yourself, and to find out these things and accept them and accept that you have to work on improving them, well it's hard, but it's hard in a good way you know?

3. The above doesn't really have much to do with tris or anything, but maybe in a way it does, because I feel like starting to train has really opened my eyes to who I am, it's allowed me to kind of burn away some of my misconceived notions about who I was or who I was pretending to be, and it allowed me to come to accept a bit more of who I really am, good and bad. Maybe it was the very physical presentation of my strengths and weaknesses in the form of physical activities and racing, or maybe it was just getting a little bit older and hopefully a little bit wiser.


K.

[HillSlugger]

1. Ankle sprains are a bad idea.
2. If I get too competitive it sucks the fun and enjoyment out of what I'm doing.
3. I can swim!

[Zen]

At my age I know myself pretty well.

[limewave]

Great thread!

I learned:

1) I'm not a professional athlete (big surprise) and I cannot compete with them. I have a full-time job, a beautiful DD, and so many responsibilities right now that a regimented training program just isn't possible--and that's okay. It's okay to do races for fun.

2) There's no shame in placing last. In fact, I'm not sure if I've ever been more proud of myself for pushing through.

3) Eat more vegetables and less bagels :-)

[LBTC]

I hope it's ok for me to post on the triathlon forum

I've learned:

I have felt what being athletic and being fit was and didn't recognize it fully at the time. I have faith I will gain this back, but accept it may be in a somewhat different form.

I should cry more often and I want to cry at the oddest times.

I need people more than I'd like to admit sometimes and I've found people here that are almost all that I need.

Words are powerful. They can uplift, support, injure, damage, cause every emotion imaginable, and often produce a different emotion than was actually intended.

Roses need a lot of pruning. They are worth it.

I am not quite as patient, disciplined, kind, tolerant or sexy as I'd like to be. I'm human.

If others feel like I do some days, I hope that the pictures I offer to the world each day help them, just like they help me.

All of you who train for triathlons, who race to win, or to have fun, who work hard and balance your lives and are still fabulous, wonderful, supportive women - you inspire me.

Thank you!

Hugs and butterflies,
~T~

[Tri Girl]

Love this thread! Thanks for starting it.

1. When I don't have a big goal to focus on, I slack off

2. This one deals with my self image. I used to be really big and giant, then got really skinny (far too skinny to maintain- but I did it the right way- through diet and exercise) and now I'm somewhere in the middle. I learned that I can be medium sized and still be an OK athlete. I don't have to be rail thin to be good at sport- my thunder thighs power me on the bike and my big shoulders and chest pull me through the water. My size doesn't determine my worth (something I still struggle with)

3. Changing jobs can change your life and your attitude about most everything- for the positive (even tho it's really scary)

4. Negativity is contagious- and it's easy to get sucked in

5. online support and friends can be just as "real" and wonderful as those I can touch

[Deborajen]

Hmm - I hadn't actually thought that all this training meant lessons were being learned about myself --

But come to think of it, I have learned one really good lesson (at least one) -

Love the sport and enjoy it.

Last year I ran my first half marathon and then thought, now what? Do I "have" to do a full marathon now? That's a lot of training, and I'm not sure I want to make the sacrifices necessary to do that. But that's o.k. I love running, I enjoy the focus it takes and the not having to please anyone else. It's healthy and a good thing just being active - progress and accomplishments or not.

Deb