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  1. #1
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    Public Speaking Jitters

    I'm speaking at an event tonight and, despite the fact that I do a fair amount of public speaking, I'm getting the jitters. Most of the public speaking I do is about the law, in front of other lawyers, most of whom I know. I'm on familiar territory so it doesn't freak me out. Tonight, however, I've been asked to speak at an event to celebrate the successful end to the YMCA of Greater Indianapolis's Strong Kids Campaign. They wanted a testimonial from a donor/campaigner and chose me. I'm very honored, but my testimonial touches on some personal things which I'll be sharing with a roomful of strangers. Needless to say, I suddenly feel like I'm not wearing anything but my underwear.

    Please send me your good thoughts, ladies. I'm sure it will go just fine, but I'm nervous all the same.

    Thanks!

    Kate
    Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Continue to learn. Appreciate your friends. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is.

    --Mary Anne Radmacher

  2. #2
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    Kate - you'll do great! I'm sure you're a confident and articulate speaker, and even though the material may be personal, think of the good it will do to those in attendance. Relax, take a deep breath and enjoy the experience!

    Let us know how it went tomorrow!
    Dar
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    “Minds are like parachutes...they only function when they are open. - Thomas Dewar"

  3. #3
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    Like skydiving...

    I was terribly shy in high school, so I joined a public speaking club to help me get over it! I did that for four years, and eventually majored in Public Speaking in college. I still get nervous...
    I try to look at it as an adventure. It makes you nervous, you get an adrenaline rush, and then you feel great when it is over.
    I find no amount of preparation and practice can get rid of that feeling if you have it. I just try to embrace it.

  4. #4
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    Eat something with protein a half hour before you speak. Known to ease stage fright.
    Lisa
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  5. #5
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    You will do wonderfully.
    Jennifer

    “Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.”
    -Mahatma Gandhi

    "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit."
    -Aristotle

  6. #6
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    You'll do great. Since you will be speaking on more personal subjects, once you get going, you will probably do even better than in the courtroom because it will be "real". If all else fails, you could always try to picture your audience as though they were in THEIR underware!! On second thought, maybe not. You might not be able to control your laughter.

 

 

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