I have a really dumb question.
I've never heard of a sit-bone wide saddle making shorts ride up. But I have heard of a saddle set too high making you "saw" across the seat and causing all sorts of ruckus.
So, my dumb question: is your saddle set up too high and making you "saw" or "rock" just enough to cause trouble?
Not-so-dumb-question: which is causing you pain, a too-wide nose or a too-wide sitbone perch? ( a too-wide nose/too gradual nose-to-perch transition would rub on the insides of your thighs or where your butt folds and becomes your thigh)
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