I would say that much, much more understanding is needed of ALL the ramifications of cancer treatment.
The media and the medical establishment so often represent cancer cases as "cured." So when a woman is cancer-free for a certain period of time, she no longer has the support from friends and family that she so desperately needs.
The fact that information about the so-called "side effects" is so hard to find also, I think, makes people rush into treatment decisions without fully understanding the consequences.
"Chemo brain" for sure. A 40-50% chance of chronic pain and a 40-50% chance of lymphedema. Heart and lung damage from radiation and chemotherapy. Loss of sensation in a major erogenous zone. If the woman is married, a better than 20% chance that her husband will leave her (!). Never mind the horrific and permanent physical scarring of the body part that defines a woman in the popular imagination and so, inescapably, to at least some extent in her own mind.
People who've never been touched by cancer need to understand that a cancer diagnosis is a lifelong struggle, even if the cancer itself never recurs after the initial treatment.



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On a good note: she's still cancer free.
