Sounds like a WSD would be right out...
I still vote for trying a Surly Cross Check and Surly Long Haul Trucker, but I loved the Jamis Aurora. If you felt the reach was too short on that, well, maybe the Cross Check will still feel a little cramped, but try it anyway! Cyclocross bikes will likely feel a little too tall, even when the reach is good. They lean toward having the bottom bracket higher from the ground than the average bike (more ground clearance). The most noticable effect is it makes standover higher, but that wouldn't be too much fun if you already feel you need a short standover.
I feel great on all 3 of my cyclocross-geometry bikes, but I've never tried the Long Haul Trucker or Kona Sutra or Casaroll or Trek 520. Let me know how you like them!
More steel, more fun!
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